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Do you ever realize that Online profiles begin with the word “I”? Even though you are the one who is longing for true love, the online dating process really should not be about you.
Sandhriel states: “Online Dating is not about the person posting the ad, but about the person they are looking for; this is called Compound Interest. You can achieve success when you ‘Pay it Forward.’”
“What do I have to pay forward?” you may wonder.
Think about it. There are more than 10 million Daters registered with Internet Dating sites paying over $2 billion dollars per year in the hopes of finding true love. If everyone is looking for just that one person, the likelihood that we spend most of our time rejecting others and being rejected ourselves is a given. In other words, once your sizzling profile is public, all you can focus on is weeding through the hundreds or even thousands of men and women that flood towards you.
So while you’re waiting for your true love, earn some karma points by learning how to gracefully say “thanks, but no thanks,” because that is what you’ll spend most of your time doing on the Internet.
Chaszey says: “Whatever we give out comes back to us tenfold. What people forget is that while people should earn our trust, no one should have to earn our respect and our kindness. Each and every person deserves these free gifts from us, for the simple fact that we are fellow humans living on the same planet, enjoying the same sunlight and walking fairly similar journeys called life. And let’s recognize that everyone is looking for the exact same thing: Unconditional Love.”
It may take some time and willingness to send rejection e-mails to potential partners that show your effort, are filled with grace and show your kindness. Chaszey says: “Don’t underestimate how much your kind words are worth to the recipient. Not only may you mend a broken heart, but you will gain karma points that are subjected to compound interest on a whole new level. Your life can only change for the better. Maybe hard to explain, but worth the try.”
These karma points serve like a bonus to help you build a new character and create a stronger and kinder you so you can bring into your experience the person you truly deserve.
Next time you hit that pre-set “no thank you” button, take some time and study their profile for a few minutes and respond accordingly, filled with your kind thoughts and your best wishes for a fellow being on a similar journey as yours.
You can reach Chaszey Sandhriel at her website at www.youronlinedatingcoach.com. She has helped hundreds of clients get profiles that get noticed. Download her free tips and get on her free tele-seminars. Or call her at 415.419.7952.
