http://www.relationship-help.org Relationship Help and Advice Wed, 19 Nov 2008 11:50:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 http://www.relationship-help.org/relationship-help-and-advice-blog/#comment-1517 anne Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:22:44 +0000 http://www.relationship-help.org/relationship-help-and-advice-blog/#comment-1517 A little background; my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years (since I was 15 and he was 17). Previous to our relationship he had never had sex with another girl, I on the other hand had. Well now our situation is that we are serious and we do want to get married eventually butttt....he's "curious" about what it's like to have sex with someone else. He is the most trustworthy, loyal, happy, caring person you could imagine. But as probably most 21 year olds hes curious. I offered to him that we take a 3 week break and he can do whatever he wants and get it "out of his system" now, so in the long run he wouldn't cheat because his curiosity got the best of him. He wants to be with me forever, therefore he's hesitant to do our plan because he doesn't want to lose me. I will be there for him afterwards but my question is... will he want to come back to me after being with other girls? A little background; my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years (since I was 15 and he was 17). Previous to our relationship he had never had sex with another girl, I on the other hand had.
Well now our situation is that we are serious and we do want to get married eventually butttt….he’s “curious” about what it’s like to have sex with someone else. He is the most trustworthy, loyal, happy, caring person you could imagine. But as probably most 21 year olds hes curious.
I offered to him that we take a 3 week break and he can do whatever he wants and get it “out of his system” now, so in the long run he wouldn’t cheat because his curiosity got the best of him.
He wants to be with me forever, therefore he’s hesitant to do our plan because he doesn’t want to lose me. I will be there for him afterwards but my question is…
will he want to come back to me after being with other girls?

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